Submitted by: Donald Hank
Tell Me Again, Why Did My Friends Die In Iraq?
by Paul Szoldra
It was probably chilly that December day in Fallujah back in 2004. A
man you probably never heard of, Lance Corporal Franklin Sweger - along with
thousands of Marines and soldiers - was engaged in some of the worst combat
since Vietnam.
"Everything's OK mom, don't worry about me," he told his mother two weeks before. "I think I'm going
to make it."
In less
than ten days, the city would be for the most part, secure. Its residents would
need years to rebuild after the destruction, and its children would see an
astronomical rise in birth defects and other
abnormalities.
But for
Sweger, Dec. 16 would be the last day to fight. "He was the one who was
kicking in the doors and going in first," his father Frank Sweger told
MySanAntonio.
Along with his infantry platoon from 1st Battalion 3rd Marines, he was going house-to-house, kicking in doors as he had likely done since the battle had started on Nov. 7. But as he entered one room, friends told me later, he was shot and killed by an insurgent lying in wait.
He was
on his last deployment and would've gone on to college. He was funny, a
good person, and just 24 years old. Why did he
die?
The
battle that took the life of Lance Corporal Franklin Sweger was the second
assault that year on the then-lawless city of Fallujah. Called
Operation Phantom Fury (Operation Al Fajr in Arabic, or The Dawn), it was a full-scale
attack on a city teeming with insurgents who had months to prepare defenses,
booby traps, and explosives throughout the city.
When it
was all over, American and friendly forces suffered more than 100 killed
and more than 600 wounded. The Red Cross estimated 800 Iraqi civilian deaths. Insurgent deaths
were much greater than both but impossible to
count.
Why did
they die?
The invasion of Iraq was predicated on the notion of ridding the
Hussein regime of "weapons of mass destruction" of course. But in 2004, the game
was changed to counterinsurgency - ridding the world of "the
terrorists."
And we
sure were successful. Until the U.S. pulled out, American soldiers and Marines
certainly killed their fair share of terrorists, insurgents, bad guys, and the
like. They in turn, killed plenty of us.
Yet for
all the blood spilled - of 4,488 military men and women to be precise - there's
no good reason why.
The
proof of how pointless the entire endeavor was - if you even needed more -
came Friday morning, with a report from Liz Sly in the Washington
Post.
"At the moment, there is no presence of the Iraqi state in
Fallujah," a local journalist who asked not to be named because he fears for his
safety told Sly. "The police and the army have abandoned the city, al-Qaeda has
taken down all the Iraqi flags and burned them, and it has raised its own flag
on all the buildings."
Fallujah
has fallen, and the same scenario is about
to happen in the even-larger city of Ramadi.
It
shouldn't be such a surprise the place my friends fought for is falling back
into civil war. I shouldn't be surprised when the same thing happens in
Afghanistan. But it still is, because I don't want it to
happen.
Now
looking back on his "Last Letter" written Mar. 18, 2013, Tomas Young, a
veteran of Iraq who was shot and paralyzed just five days into his deployment,
predicted this moment:
"The Iraq War is the largest strategic blunder in U.S. history,"
he wrote. "It obliterated the balance of power in the Middle East. It installed
a corrupt and brutal pro-Iranian government in Baghdad, one cemented in power
through the use of torture, death squads and terror. And it has left Iran as the
dominant force in the region. On every level-moral, strategic, military and
economic-Iraq was a failure."
I'll never know why they died. It wasn't to stop the "mushroom
cloud" or to defend the nation after 9/11. It sure wasn't for freedom, democracy, apple
pie, or mom and dad back home.
The only reason they died was for the man or woman beside them. They
died for their friends.
I'm just not satisfied with
that
Donald Hank writes:
Our thanks to officer Dave Hollenbeck for this.
While working as a bellhop in Morristown, NJ, I met a middle aged couple
who had come to the Governor Morris Hotel as part of a meeting to honor fallen
soldiers and marines in Vietnam.
As they passed by my station they stopped to show me a photo of their son
who had died when his fighter plane got shot down. Their first son had suffered
the same fate and the second son had gone to avenge his death. Not to save the
world from communism, mind you, but as a ritualistic sacrifice, in which
the parents were willing participants.
Both parents earnestly pleaded with me to go and fight. They never
once mentioned any rationale other than that their boys had died. I didn't dare
ask them why...
They wanted so badly to perpetuate the vendetta for their sons' sakes. A
transgenerational eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth.
The conflict could have lasted longer. Maybe it could still be going
on. Who would have dared tell them their sons had died in vain? And as long as
others volunteered to go and fight, they could suppose that their sons had died
for a worthy cause. Life and death could be seen as one. And because so many
people like that pleaded with the young and inexperienced, boys kept signing
up.
Eventually, however, the problem is convincing the young that there
was something more to to the conflict, beyond the revenge and the risks for the
sake of the dead heroes. Heroes who would be alive and productive but for the
self perpetuating scheme of making and selling war to the young and their
parents.
Wars aren't fought because politicians can convince people that the sheer
heroism of war itself is romantic and worthy in itself.
But once it becomes obvious that there is no other point to it, they are
perpetuated on that basis.
Yet who would dare to tell a parent that once they had buried their
son?
Therein lies the dilemma.
Is it moral and righteous to sacrifice a child for an unreachable goal, and
for the parent to passionately use their dead child--without recourse to
rational debate--as a means of selling war to other people's children? Or
should someone stand up, even to the grieving parents, and tell them what
everyone is thinking in their innermost mind?
Don Hank
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